Ecclesiastes is a perfect book for the struggles of mid-life.
When I was younger, I didn’t fully appreciate this book of the Bible. You have wise, rich King Solomon reflecting back on his days, muttering “Meaningless, meaningless” like a grumpy old man. Not too hopeful, joyful, or God-honoring from my point of view.
But like dark chocolate or sea salt brownies, I began to appreciate the subtleties and bitter sweetness over time.
By mid-life, we have experienced for ourselves the meaninglessness in one way or another. We have climbed the career ladder, only to be disillusioned by office politics, an unexpected lay off, or success that simply wasn’t quite as satisfying as we expected. We have longed for children to love, cuddle, and nurture, only to encounter sleepless nights, a battle of wills, or perhaps no children at all.
It shouldn’t be this hard! Or, as Solomon says, “Meaningless, meaningless”.
Solomon walks us through the many areas that we seek to find meaning:
- pleasure
- toil
- advancement
- riches
- wisdom
and cynically (or eloquently?) shows their failure to bring satisfaction, a chasing after the wind. Yet at the same time, he also testifies to the goodness of these very things,
This is what I have observed to be good: that it is appropriate
for a person to eat, to drink and to find satisfaction in their
toilsome labor under the sun during the few days of life God has
given them—for this is their lot. Moreover, when God gives
someone wealth and possessions, and the ability to enjoy them, to
accept their lot and be happy in their toil—this is a gift of God.
Ecclesiastes is not saying that everything is meaningless – it isn’t.
Nor is it saying that wisdom, wealth, and work are pointless. No, they are good gifts from God. But they are intended to be enjoyed as gifts from our Heavenly Father, not to be the life-giving source of our joy or our ultimate purpose in life.
Rather, as we walk through this brief life, we can remember our Creator in the days of our youth — and middle age, and older age!
It’s interesting to me that Solomon encourages his readers to “Remember your Creator in the days of your youth” because it seems he followed God more in his youth than later in his life.
One encouraging, yet sobering, charge given to Solomon by his father David:
If you seek God, he will be found by you,
but if you forsake him, he will cast you off (1 Chronicles 29:8)
So why do I like Ecclesiastes? Well, it has helped me during the times when I feel the futility of life in a few ways:
1. These feelings are a normal part of life.
God devoted several chapters in the Bible to express the feeling of futility or “burn out” in life. I am not the only one to feel this way. In fact, it is part of the human existence. So when I experience feelings of futility or frustration with life, it doesn’t crush my faith. God does not ignore or dismiss these feelings we have. Ecclesiastes gives a voice to these feelings and shows they can be used by God.
2. Futility points us to God.
Originally, work was a joyful gift of God to man. The futility of work entered only during the fall as part of the curse. Futility is not part of God’s original plan, rather a reminder to us that life is not as it should be. And a call to us to be reconciled with our Creator. So the futility, in some sense, is a gift as it points us to God, the One who can fulfill us completely.
3. There is a season for everything
Life is so brief. (As we get older, it is easier to appreciate this fact!) Ecclesiastes also highlights there are seasons for everything — a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance, etc. — and these seasons fly by with lightening speed. This helps me to have a better perspective — to know that when I am feeling depressed that it won’t last forever. On the other hand, when I am feeling ecstatic, that won’t last forever either!
While we don’t know how long a “blah” season may last (for me, it can certainly feel like forever), we can cling to God’s promise that “Weeping may last through the night, but joy comes in the morning” (Ps 30:5)
And as we long for the day when Christ will return to make all things new and all as it should be, we can walk by the Spirit step by step, day by day. “Since we are led by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit.”
Plod on, my friends, plod on.